I’m sitting here watching Tom get a high dose of IV Vitamin – 75 grams! Plus a Glutathione push at the end.
2 years ago, there was so much I didn’t know about the Holistic Health World and now, there is still a lot I don’t know but yet a lot that I do know.
For example, vitamin c turns into hydrogen peroxide in your body. Cancer cells don’t like Hydrogen peroxide so Vitamin C IV Therapy is one great treatment to deal with cancer cells. It’s also great for dealing with viruses – all kinds of viruses. It gives your immune system what it needs to do it’s job.
I’m grateful to have this treatment as an option for Tom.
Tom and I were interviewed about our journey through cancer and asked to offer 1 habit to practice a day. The book was released today and is already #3 on Amazon’s Hot New Releases List! We know it will help those going through cancer and we hope you will read it. We are honored to have been included in this book #CortDavies and #SteveSamblis 💕 https://hubs.ly/H0pw1Hv0
It’s been a couple of months since I posted last. I don’t write in my journal every day anymore. It sometimes feels like the days are even harder now but how can that be? Tom is cancer-free. It’s been six months and late December he will do more tests to make sure but his last bloodwork looked great.
He feels great and is doing well. The thing is, we both are dealing with this process of life after cancer. We were so happy and so grateful when he got the all-clear. Then, we both started having days (sometimes the same days, other times different days) where we miss our old life, wonder what life will be like now, and wonder how we will keep up this new regimen.
When you go the western path of treatment, there are follow up appointments and tests but the treatments stop and you (try) to go back to life as it was. We can’t do that. We’ve cut Tom’s supplements in half but he is not ready to let go of any more of them yet. We are both fearful of letting go of them too quickly. So each month we spend a significant amount of money on supplements as well as organic food.
We have finally started letting ourselves go out to eat at 3 different restaurants rarely, but still, it feels so great, helps us feel “normal” and at the same time, we worry and feel that we are cheating.
We decided to take a break and spend a weekend at a place we loved. We used to go there a lot in our old life before cancer. The picture on the post is us the first night we arrived at dinner. It was beautiful outside and the water was in front of us. Both of us were wiped out and exhausted from the 5-hour drive to get there and after 2 days, on the drive home, we discussed how it wasn’t the same, we didn’t really enjoy it anymore. It’s from our old life.
We didn’t expect this at all but we were so focused on healing Tom, we never thought about after and what “after” would look and feel like. So we realize we need to make changes and start thinking about what our new lives will look like.
My routine of taking care of health treatments is pretty much the same; every morning I make Tom’s smoothie and every other morning I juice enough for both of use for 2 days. I have breakfast, check email and then go to the office. I schedule treatment and Dr. appointments for Tom and go with him to the Dr. appointments. I keep notebooks (I am up to 3 now) of all of his test results, bills, and anything else related to his health in these notebooks. I still research when we need answers. I shop on Fridays at 5 different stores for all of the organic food we need for the week. Now that we juice, I buy a lot more greens.
About every 3 weeks I make a new batch of Essiac Tea. Tom has started making it and drinking it at night on his own. I have other things to do like re-starting my business, managing our debt, and now the end of year processes have hit: manage to get his new health insurance plan, my new health insurance plan, and soon, I’ll need to start preparing for tax filing.
My body has finally let me know it’s exhausted so I’m getting treatments I need for adrenal fatigue and TMJ (which has flared up from stress and has caused me to have Tinnitus-it drives me crazy). At the end of the day, I am completely wiped out and exhausted. I knew it was time to take care of my body. I think the only reason I was able to go as long as I have is that I am eating what Tom eats and that has helped support my immune system.
About once a month I get a massage from a therapist that works on my TMJ, my back-because I hurt it and it’s been like that for months. Every other week I get an IV Vitamin C treatment that also includes B-12, Magnesium, and glutathione.
What is Glutathione and What Does it Do?
Glutathione is a combination of three simple building blocks of protein or amino acids − cysteine, glycine, and glutamine − and is produced naturally in the body. It is called the master antioxidant because it can regenerate itself in the liver after each “fill-up” of free radicals and go back to work. Free radicals are often the byproduct of normal cellular metabolic oxidation and toxic overload. They can lead to autoimmune diseases, several types of cancer, and even heart attacks.
Keeping yourself healthy, boosting your performance, preventing disease, and aging well all depends on keeping glutathione levels high. It is critical for immune function and controlling inflammation. It is the master detoxifier and the body’s main antioxidant, protecting our cells and making our energy metabolism run well.-truth about cancer
We both want to dig out of the debt and figure out how to get the most out of every moment of life yet we are stuck in the cycle of treatment and repetitive work. We both want to have so many life experiences together and enjoy living. We have come to terms with leaving our old lives behind, now we have to figure out how to move forward.
We appreciate everyone who follows us and thank everyone for the support and prayers-it’s what has helped us get through this.
My first post in the journal my friend Judy gave me was Monday, July 30, 2018-the day of Tom’s surgery.
It was the first time Tom had ever been in a hospital and the first time he had ever had surgery. He was on no medications for anything. Yet here we were, in the holding room, waiting for them to perform surgery-for Bladder Cancer.
My Blog That Day…
The morning is dragging. Tom can’t eat or drink – just wait. We leave before 10 am to arrive at 11:15 am at the hospital for surgery scheduled for 1:15 pm. The surgery didn’t start until 2:00 pm.
The Doctor won’t confirm what he already knows – it’s cancer. Not thrilled about them putting Mitomycin-C in his bladder after the surgery. It’s Chemo.
The Dr. met with me after the surgery and was very bland stating, “it’s cancer.” Without missing a breath he went on to say they would start BCB (chemo in the bladder) treatments and if that didn’t work, regular chemo, radiation, and removal of his bladder. My head was reeling.
I remember being in the Dr.’s office when he, again, rather blandly told Tom it was “probably cancer.” I remember that awful feeling inside and looking at Tom’s face trying to decide what was going on in his mind. He was emotionless and just said “okay” to everything the Dr. said. Neither of us had any questions, we were both in shock.
As we left the office, I stopped in the restroom-I felt sick.
During the surgery, they scraped several tumors and clusters of tumors from the lining of his bladder. We were told they would call with the Biopsy results.
Tom’s first statement: “I don’t want to lose my hair.” He was scared of the chemo drug that was sitting in his bladder.
Before we left the hospital, the nurse showed me how to deal with the catheter and told me to use latex gloves because the Mitomycin-C is toxic. I drained it the first couple of days and then Tom insisted on doing it until the next Dr.’s appointment.
Our world changed forever on that day. I brought Tom home with the catheter.
I was grateful for my sister. She’s an RN and a Certified Holistic Nutritionist. She had begun researching natural treatments.
I knew I had to share with Tom the information my sister had started researching and was afraid he wouldn’t consider alternative treatments. I didn’t want to share the stats on survival if going with Western Medicine.
I hate the word cancer. The word by itself creates fear in everyone. I know it did in me and I know it did in Tom.
This song touches my soul. You see, my husband Tom was diagnosed with bladder cancer in July of this year. As often is the case, a song from Kenny Chesney really moves us. This song, Better Boat, is Tom’s “anthem”.
He gets emotional when he hears it because it reflects this journey we are
on. Diagnosed in July, tumors removed, Tom has chosen an integrated but mostly
holistic/natural treatment protocol.
So, it often feels like we are on our own and alone doing this. Cancer
causes you to fear, anger, and with this treatment, it is really building his
bodies immune system to fight this disease. The cost of surgery, doctors, tests
and strong nutrients, specific food-all organic, oxygen hyperbaric chamber
treatments, Far-Infrared Sauna treatments, and Cryo-Nitrogen treatments are
The week Tom was diagnosed, I lost my monthly client so it’s been tough.
So far, tests show we have pushed cancer back but it’s still at the cellular level so we continue this treatment protocol for at least another year. It takes so much money to do that.
This song reflects how Tom feels and we both have faith in what he is doing.
I do the research, make the appointments, handle the insurance and paperwork,
find the food, store & prepare it and keep nutrients stocked.
I worry because we can’t pay for this for a year. It’s about $2500 a month
on average if we don’t run into obstacles and need other things. And that
doesn’t include whatever tests he may need throughout the year.
My friend started a gofundme page and friends, family, and associates were kind enough to donate but we really need help.
Because a holistic treatment for cancer seems so controversial, and this song has touched our hearts in such a big way, I’ve created this blog page www.buildabetterboat.life to blog and vlog about the journey.
We understand that many believe in complete western treatments but we know
others support us and believe in natural as well. So far, we’ve tried to blend
it but Doctors are not willing to work with us. I cry when I hear this song
because it reminds me of Tom’s journey just like Summertime reminds me of my
last summer with my mom, who we lost to cancer.
I pray that people will find this blog and know we sincerely need help. If I
could find 250 people that would give $100 on the gofundme page, I could
breathe that we can get through this year.
All of Kenny’s music is amazing, this song is very special to us and we love
the No Shoes Nation Community. Sorry to say we won’t be able to see Kenny in
concert even though it’s the first time in several years he has played in
Jacksonville, FL (close to us) but we can’t spend any money on anything extra.
So, we hope when we get through this we can see Kenny again.